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Too Wise Wives"
**** (out of ****)
The married couple sits mostly silent but contently together in their study. He is smoking a pipe as he reads a book. The smoke from his pipe blows in her face. She'd prefer it if he'd smoke the cigars, she bought him for Christmas. She wouldn't dare suggest it though since she doesn't want to be a nag. Meanwhile she is knitting him a pair of slippers to replace his beat up old pair. Delighted by her accomplishment, she enthusiastically puts the new pair on his feet; but he liked his old, worn out pair - they were comfortable. The next morning she has prepared for them to have fried chicken for breakfast. He once told her fried chicken was his favorite but it seems to him like they always eat chicken.
Watching these opening moments from Lois Weber's remarkable silent film, "Too Wise Wives" (1921) my heart swelled up and filled me with understanding. At one time or another throughout my life I have been these characters - the overeager lover, desperately wanting to please their partner or the overwhelmed recipient of such attention.
"Too Wise Wives" is a delicate examination on the fragility of relationships, societal gender roles, emotional maturity, ego, and love. But what is most impressive about Weber's direction and screenplay co-written with Marion Orth are the universal truths they present on-screen. Those subtle observations make the film feel alive and timeless. Here we are seeing ourselves on screen. Whether it is 1921 or 2026, men and women have engaged in a dance of give and take, often resulting in misunderstandings and even resentments.
That makes it all the more odd for me when I read online, viewers refer to this film as one of Weber's "lesser" films. What exactly is "lesser" about noting human behavior? What is "lesser" about a commentary on modern relationships and society? Is it that the movie is perceived to lack a visual flair? I'll take emotional truth over spectacle any day!
This is not to say Lois Weber was not a dizzyingly competent filmmaker, fully versed in the language of cinema. She was as extraordinarily gifted as D.W. Griffith, the "father" of American cinema. Watch her short film, "Suspense" (1913) - often cited among her best work - and witness the technical craft. Pay attention to her use of split screen - dividing the frame into thirds - her effective use of cross-cutting, the editing, the pacing, the fluidity of the plot and the usage of the camera. Notice the shift in perspective as whenever a Tramp character is on-screen the POV is always an overhead shot. Compare all of this to Griffith's own short, "An Unseen Enemy" (1912). Critics and historians rightly praise Griffith for his mastery of these cinematic techniques, Weber demonstrates she was an equal. An unfortunately forgotten equal. There's no point to declare Weber was better than Griffith. It's rather immature to feel compelled to knock someone down in order to lift another. D.W. Griffith was a great filmmaker. Lois Weber was a great filmmaker.
If "Too Wise Wives" seems to be doing "less" than other Weber films, lets go back to the first two pivotal scenes and consider all of the emotional psychology Weber's camera is capturing. From the very first shot of Mrs. David Graham (Claire Windsor) the viewer is immediately in her head space. The intertitles contribute to this but Weber's camera isn't neutral. It is subtle in its alignment with the wife. The shots seems impartial - long shots, medium shots, two shots - but notice psychologically what happens whenever we see David Graham (Louis Calhern). As we watch him, we consider how his wife will respond. Weber even projects conflict spatially each time the camera cuts between two shots - both characters in a frame - to medium shots of the individual characters. The medium shots invoke a greater distance between the characters while in a two shot we see there isn't much space between them. That manipulation of space reflects each characters emotional distance. Weber may not be doing anything as fancy as dividing her frame into thirds but that camera is working to visually tell a story and Weber is controlling her audiences' emotions in ways only the best filmmakers do.

While the camera is never neutral and our sympathies are meant to align with the wife, "Too Wise Wives" implies she is the "weaker" character since she is the one making all of the "sacrifices" to keep domestic tranquility - putting up with her husband's smoke, not "nagging" and cleaning up after his ashes. But these actions aren't "weakness" and her "sacrifices" are declarations of love. The husband isn't necessarily self-absorb or uncaring either. He eventually becomes conscious of his actions and the ensuing results of them. There is a little bit of "a man should be king of his castle" mentality but underneath that is a commentary that communication is key. Neither character is "good" or "bad", "weak" or "strong". Instead we come to observe, good intentions may lead to acts of kindness but they can also be misinterpreted. That's why Weber begins her story with a title card that reads; "Most stories end: "And they lived happily ever after ~", "Too Wise Wives" is about how people interact day-to-day to keep that "happily ever after" alive. In other words, how do we co-exist? It's not a "battle" between the sexes but a gentle dance. That's the heart of Weber's tale.
"Too Wise Wives" contrasts the Grahams with Mr. John Daly (Phillips Smalley, who was married to Weber) and his wife (Mona Lisa) with a particular focus on the wives. If Mrs. Graham tries too hard to fit into her role of wife, Mrs. Daly is the opposite. If Mrs. Graham is suffocating, Mrs. Daly is carefree. Weber however proposes "carefree" doesn't equal "freedom". Carefree may be a lack of trying. Carefree could indicate you have nothing personally at stake. Mrs. Graham is insecure and tries too hard but she loves her husband. Her doting signifies her investment in the marriage. Weber crystalizes this tension when Mrs. Graham becomes suspicious of Mrs. Daly, after she sends her husband a perfume scented letter. Heightening the anxiety is the fact Mr. Graham and Mrs. Daly were once involved.
It is through these actions that Weber and Orth's screenplay begins to focus on the themes of emotional maturity, ego, and the fragility of relationships. While Mrs. Graham both despises and admires Mrs. Daly, for her ability to seemingly be "the perfect wife", she will eventually learn that in a good relationship / marriage both people must learn to trust one another, there is no such thing as perfect, and compromise is key.
Weber creates wonderful visuals to communicate Mrs. Graham's growth. For example take a scene where Mrs. Graham is expecting to find her husband cheating. She is in the second floor hallway and sits down to spy on her husband below, who is pacing in a library. We see him through the railings. Whenever a character is positioned above another, that signals power, and here Mrs. Graham has a moment of clarity. Seeing the husband in a frame within a frame (through the railings) not only guides our eyes towards him but it also demonstrates the emotional weight of the moment. Once again Weber is using the camera to convey psychology, as she does with the final image of the couple, embraced in each other's arms. They are tangled together, which is a much different image from when we first saw them with space between them.
These moments make me appreciate Claire Windsor's performance, which I think is the best from the cast. Many viewers on-line however seem to not enjoy it, calling it "annoying", "slow" or "boring". For me though, she drives the entire film and not only because she is the lead character. Windsor is moving the story along through her acting. Silent films practically require this. There is never a moment of doubt about what Windsor's character is feeling or thinking, even without the use of title cards. That is what makes this a successful performance. It completely pulled me in and made the character relatable. A bad performance on the other hand is when you don't understand a character's logic or mindset. When you don't understand their emotions. None of that is true in the case of Windsor. Luckily, Weber also spotted something in Windsor and would cast her in additional films such as "The Blot" (1921) and "What Do Men Want Want?" (1921).

Meanwhile actress Mona Lisa plays a "bad girl, gone good" character, adding morality to this melodrama. Though unlike the works of Frank Borzage a bit later - a prominent filmmaker from the 1920s and 30s - Weber and "Too Wise Wives" is not preachy. The screenplay never makes Lisa's character out to be a villain, despite her seductress ways. Instead we recognize she is really a good person but she is hiding her true self. That explains why Weber gave the film a homophone title. Yes, we are dealing with two wives but their "problem" is they are too wise for their own good. They need to think less and trust more with their hearts.
This is perfectly conveyed in the way Weber creates the distinction between the Graham's having breakfast and the Daly's. Mr. Daly appears please with his wife. Mrs. Daly does nothing to agitate her husband. If Mr. Daly doesn't like his breakfast, Mrs. Daly doesn't take it as a personal rejection, the way Mrs. Graham would. But underneath that façade of domestic bliss, Mrs. Daly lacks the affectionate look that Mrs. Graham has in her eyes. It isn't until the end of the film, when Mrs. Daly makes a request of her husband, after a humiliating experience, does Mrs. Daly show vulnerability, which makes her human. Only than does she appreciate her husband and understand the emotional dynamics that goes into a relationship.
A message such as this will be "problematic" for some modern viewers, especially those with a political bent. They will be expecting a "feminist film", since this was directed by a woman. This type of thinking however causes a disconnect for modern viewers when they watch older films. They want to retroactively apply modern politics to 100 year old movies. In the case of Lois Weber specifically, these same kind of viewers are expecting her to make social commentaries aimed at tearing down the patriarchy. This actually reduces Weber and ignores her true talent and abilities as a filmmaker. It's part of the problem when you are political first, human second, only watching movies that validate your political beliefs. If "Too Wise Wives" isn't feminist, it is not a betrayal of womanhood on Weber's part - I actually read that! Just because someone is a woman, doesn't mean they are automatically a feminist. Phyllis Schlafly anyone? Furthermore, there is no proof that Weber was a self-identified feminist. The great movie critic, Molly Haskell, wrote in her seminal book, From Reverence to Rape the following about Weber, "Her surviving, and presumably more commercially successful, films are conventional melodramas of the kind that were being turned out by the truckload in every studio. There is even evidence for supporting that her sympathies were at the very least mixed, if not blatantly opposed to feminism". In fact there is a scene in this film where women are gathered at a political meeting - remember women had won the right to vote a year earlier - and Weber makes a joke about how some women don't even know the issues.
None of this is to suggest that Lois Weber was not a remarkable figure. There is much feminist can find extremely deserving of admiration. Historians believe she was the first American woman to direct a movie in 1914. By 1916 she was one of the highest paid directors at Universal Pictures, making $5,000 a week. The following year, she was running her own movie studio - Lois Weber Pictures - making her once again the first American woman to do so. Her films were commercially successful, making her one of the most popular - and important - directors of her era, regardless of gender. Her technical craft matched the likes of D.W. Griffith. And while "Too Wise Wives" may not be a prime example, Weber's films did tackle big social issues such as hypocrisy, class, marriage, and even birth control.

This is what makes it all the more frustrating when women like Weber have been ignored and forgotten about in film history. In the early years of cinema, women were a significant part of its history. There were tremendously talented women who were directors, writers, and major box-office stars. Names like Alice Guy-Blache, Helen Holmes, Mabel Normand, Grace Cunard, Nell Shipman and Alice Howell all contributed to make the movies what they would become.
The emergence of the Hollywood studio system is what many feminist film theorists and critics believe caused the erasure of these great artists from film history books. The shift from independent filmmaking, which allowed a filmmaker like Weber to flourish, transformed into a male dominated business. With a new priority on profits, Hollywood deemed men more suitable for the task of handling these projects, pushing aside female voices.
There has been a process in the works - driven mostly by female movie critics - to acknowledge these directors and highlight their contributions. More film lovers are now aware that Alice Guy-Blache may have directed the first fictional film in 1896 ("The Cabbage Fairy"), that director Dorothy Arzner invented the boom mic, or that silent film comedy was comprised of more than just Chaplin, Keaton, and Lloyd. There was Polly Moran and Alice Howell for example. We have people like the excellent critic Elizabeth Weitzman to thank for this, the author of Renegade Women in Film & TV and Alicia Malone, who wrote The Female Gaze, and DVD sets like "Pioneers: First Women Filmmakers", distributed by KINO.
Hopefully this will also lead to greater exposure of Weber's work. We must be careful however not to reduce her to a symbol. Weber was a great filmmaker not because she was a woman but because she had talent. Female directors shouldn't be treated as novelties and they shouldn't be expected to have progressive views. These women were products of their times, under the same social pressures as anyone else. Weber's work excels because of this. She not only captured her time but found the universality of the human existence. That is more valuable than politics because it is the mark of an artist and not an activist.
"Too Wise Wives" may not be considered one of Lois Weber's great works but it is never-the-less an essential piece that underscores the qualities that defined her films - subtlety, nuance, interiority - and showcases her technical craftsmanship for being able to visualize character psychology. It is one of my favorite Weber films.